Setting boundaries can be a tricky thing, but we have to do it. If we don’t, we can be manipulated so easily. Especially women. Why? Because we are typically the nurturers, the caretakers, the keeper of the keys to the family. The purpose of having boundaries is to protect and take care of ourselves. We need to be able to tell other people (yes, especially those we love) when they are acting in ways that are not acceptable to us. We have not only the right, but the duty, to take responsibility for how we allow others to treat us.
Once upon a time, long, long ago, humans lived in a matriarchal society, where the feminine energy was dominant. Eventually that changed into a more male dominated energy. Even though women have made tremendous strides in so many areas, setting healthy boundaries is pretty important. And it’s equally as important for men. Have you ever felt like you’ve given yourself away to everyone else? If so, what’s left for you? How can you give if you don’t have enough energy to take care of yourself?
I’ve been there … got the t-shirt, complete with the tear stains and I’m here to say … today … that I’m just not going there again.
Today’s photo is a Barrel Cactus in my yard. I believe it has some pretty visible boundaries and you can bet I won’t be crossing them. I respect this cactus for what it is. Namaste’
My religion is very simple. My religion is kindness.
Thank you to all my readers who sent good wishes for a nice vacation. I do appreciate all of you. I wish I could read all of your blog posts and send my comments. I’m trying to catch up. May take a while.
Today’s image is one that I took while on vacation in Nevada this past week. My sister-in-law, Carryl, got permission from her neighbor for me to photograph this unusual flower. Her yard is lush with beautiful, colorful plants and flowers. I admire people who have a green thumb (and whose husband is a landscaper) :-). I have no idea what this flower is but I thought it to be just lovely.
Kindness (to me) is the color of purple. It’s also the color I use when I meditate, visualizing the violet flame of healing, forgiveness, protection and peace. Namaste’
I’m going to keep this short and sweet. I’m extremely grateful for all of my blessings today. For love, family, good friends, my faithful blog readers, protection, abundance … and the list goes on and on. I am finding myself particularly grateful today for being protected in traffic.
Southern Arizona in the winter time is one of the U.S. locations that draws a lot of winter visitors. And I’m going to be gentle here and only say that some of them could use some better road etiquette. So, thank you, dear Angel of the Highways for your protection today and always.
We’ve had this medallion in our car for a long time and it reminds me that there are angels all around, protecting us not just from crazy drivers, but from a myriad of unforeseen mishaps.
Thanks, angels, for all you do.
As always, click the image to enlarge it. Namaste.