It seems as if there are a lot of people feeling an emptiness these days, kind of like being hollowed out. Could it be that they just haven’t found their calling; their purpose? I’ve experienced it myself in the past, which is the reason I hope this post can be of benefit to someone else.
Finding and following your calling is a big part of living with purpose. Finding that calling though, can be a pretty intimidating task, particularly if you put yourself under pressure to come up with the perfect answer right here and right now.
While it’s a goal worth pursuing, it’s also important to realize that it may take time to find your calling. It’s a process that will develop over time, and one that you can’t force. In fact, you shouldn’t. A much better plan of action is to take it one step and one day at a time until your calling becomes clear.
I believe the first, most important step is to get clear about what you really want.
Start With What’s Important To You
A great place to start is to think about what’s important to you. It doesn’t have to be huge or all-consuming. Start with something small. Find a cause you feel drawn to and do what you can to support it. Volunteer … learn more about it and share what you’re learning with others. Support organizations financially if you can.
Maybe this means knitting baby hats for preemies at your local hospital. Or making blankets for the homeless. Maybe it means spending time with an elderly neighbor, or maybe it means saving up for a mission trip next summer.
The most important thing is to simply start and do something. It’s good for your happiness and your health!
“There’s beauty everywhere if we just look for it.”
When you’re in a crappy mood, you just don’t want to hear something like this. Wouldn’t you rather be immersed in the self-pity, the woe-is-me, I’ll bring you down with me kind of misery?
That’s kind of how I felt the other day when I was at Urgent Care. But while waiting for the doctor to come in, I took this image with my phone. It was a rather large wall art piece, probably 4’x4′ and I thought it was kind of cool. I especially liked the colors.
It sure beats looking at those cotton balls, tongue depressors, and that red box on the wall for the used needles…eeeuw!
Or maybe it was my higher self saying “Hey, look for the beauty in everything; every circumstance; every encounter.” All of a sudden, I felt better. Namaste’
Regina (Reggie) Arnold is the author of Uncomplicated Ways to Find Your Financial Freedom, a “flunked retirement” entrepreneur, co-author of The Art & Science of Recruiting, an award-winning photographic artist, and photo blogger.
While visiting my Mom yesterday, she took me to meet a wonderful little lady who lives there in the adult care home. There are only about nine residents in the home, so it’s a rather intimate little group.
Each person there is probably wishing they weren’t trapped in bodies that are failing them now. It’s so sad to see them all sitting around the living room, mostly asleep in the recliners. Some are in their rooms, but no one seems very happy. The food is decent (nothing to write home about) and healthy, the grounds outside are lovely, and the staff is very helpful and pleasant.
But back to the lovely lady that Mom introduced me to. She has a shelf in her room with these painted ponies and she adores them. She was thrilled when I asked her if I could photograph them. All I had with me was my phone but it was enough to make her feel good. Sometimes it’s the smallest of things we can provide for someone else to make them smile.
Live every day to the fullest … Namaste’
Hubby’s daughter is going through some pretty rough times right now with her health. And, of course, it makes hubby pretty stressed.
No one ever wants to see their child in such a tenuous place. We bring them into this world with high hopes that their lives will be filled with joy, laughter, love, peace and abundance in all forms. And when something happens to shake that for them, we are shaken as well. It comes with the territory of being a parent.
So we ask our divine Creator to help us put the fragile pieces back into working order again. And we have faith that our requests are being heard because after all …“Therefore I tell you, do not worry about your life, what you will eat or drink; or about your body, what you will wear. Is not life more than food, and the body more than clothes? Look at the birds of the air; they do not sow or reap or store away in barns, and yet your heavenly Father feeds them. Are you not much more valuable than they? Can any one of you by worrying add a single hour to your life? Matt 6:25-27 NIV
A lovely surprise came in the mail for me a while back from our friend, Anne, who lives in the City by the Bay. She knows how much I love shooting pictures so she sent me this wonderful mug, which I absolutely love drinking coffee from. So thanks again, Anne!
Yes, I’m a bona fide coffee drinker and no, I will never, ever change in that respect. I do like tea, but in the morning it’s a good cup of Joe for me. This morning I had to do some fasting blood tests, so I filled up this mug, took it with me, and as soon as the vampires took my blood and I was back in my car, I drank that glorious brown liquid. Ha!
If any of my photographer friends want one of these, I believe these or similar ones can be found at Photojojo. Namaste’
I found this recipe on Facebook for something called Fat Flush Water. I tried it the other day and personally, unless you are absolutely crazy about mint, I would eliminate it. So today I made it without the mint and it tastes great. If you like it sweeter, just add a packet of Stevia to your glass. Want the recipe? See below the photo.
Recipe (body flush and detox water):
One cucumber, one lemon, one or two oranges, two limes and a bunch of mint (only if you like the taste of mint)
Slice them all and divide the ingredients between four 24 oz. water bottles (I used a gallon (glass) jug for all of it, as you can see in the photo), and fill it up with filtered water. Drink daily! This tastes delicious, helps flush fat and counts toward your daily water intake.
Lemons: Help in the absorption of sugars and calcium; cuts down your craving for sweets.
Cucumber: Acts as a diuretic and flushes fat cells. It is alkalizing to the body and if you have an alkaline body, it is difficult for disease to thrive. Cucumber also increases your energy level.
Lime: Promotes a healthy digestive tract.
Mint: A natural appetite suppressant that also aids in digestion.
To your good health! Namaste’
You’re giving me such a hard time right now. My ego says “That person hurt you and someone you love! Don’t let ’em get away with that! You have a right to be angry and upset.”
Then there’s YOU who says, “Never does the human soul appear so strong and noble as when it forgoes revenge and dares to forgive injury.“ (Edwin Hubbel Chapin Universalist minister, author)
I guess I’ll try and remember that and, for your sake and mine, I will not send the nasty letter I was going to send. But I think I’ll write it anyway, just to get it off my chest. Then I’ll probably burn it.
Is that bad?